Originality is the Key to Charisma
I mean just think about it? If the stream is going one way but then a certain object is going against that stream wouldn’t that catch your attention? Of course it would. Charisma is just you catching other people’s attention.
Same thing applies to people’s ideas. Most of the people believe in an idea that has been widely accepted and they don’t even bother researching further to see if it is actually true or not.
Then there are also a few people who want to know the truth OR more about the subject so they dig into it – researching everything they could that is associated with the subject.
There are many times when the research proves the accepted idea is farce OR it creates a counter-point which opposes the idea, thus giving the researcher a unique position.
When someone stands up against the crowd and expresses his/her opinion which is backed up by some facts and that idea is very different or goes against peoples accepted beliefs – it is exactly at THAT point when charisma starts to build up.
Another interesting thing is that being charismatic could come naturally or it could be learned. Some people have it naturally through their looks, way of speech, body language, talent and unique characteristics which separates them from the crowd.
Other people can learn how to be charismatic by going against the crowd through their will and the best way to do it is by being original and thinking outside of the box. That’s all there is to it and of course it is a lot easier said than done.
The bottom line is originality exudes charisma. When one is original it allows one to “wake” every other person in one’s life from the stream of continuous repetition.